Male Sensuality
posted by Renan Shodin
Sounds simple right? "Man is always horny, crazy to do and happen. They seem full of themselves, with self-esteem on top. No insecurity about their bodies and standards of beauty. No internal demands on how to act at Hour H. So que No, not exactly this.
Most men are raised to dislike, rancid, disgust another man. Another man's body and your own. Smells, hair and fluids. And that transcends the issue of sexual choice. I have heard from many gays that the question of touch and affection between them is also difficult. AND WHY IS IT?
Since boys we are bombarded to see and feel sensuality and beauty, only in women. Unfortunately they are objectified as consumables by many types of industries. Not just pornographic. And as bad as this is, it ended up taking strong roots in our unconscious.
Have you ever heard a straight man say to another "This brother is sexy huh! What a sensual brother! In these cases Man is never sensual, at most" good looking "or" has a presence ". And what is the big problem with this? to have self-love, to know my body and its millions of possibilities of pleasure if I cannot recognize it in another man? If the male body is not placed as a source of beauty? Am I the only man on Earth? Does sensuality in another man mean that I want to relate to him? That's not true ... sexual attraction is far beyond that.
For a man, RECOGNIZING that another man is sensual and sexy can be RELEASING. And this is independent of sexual orientation. Recognizing beauty and grace in another man, and even being able to express it, can be the beginning of the cure for many issues related to machismo.