Are you being a sexual perfectionist?

High expectations for sexual "performance" cause a lot of frustration.

Many women come to me looking for vaginal orgasm, multiple orgasms, female ejaculation, just as they search for a perfect body.
It is as if there is a perfect woman in sex.

There is no harm in wanting to improve and improve on something. Being constantly evolving in all areas of life is great. We must not be content with little.

The problem is when you are not satisfied with what you have, due to an idealization.

Do you know that person who doesn't like his body for a detail? That you're not happy because you wanted to be 2 kg thinner? That person who is unhappy because he thinks the breast should be a little bigger? Or do you think it's ugly because it doesn't have Barbie's nose? That's more or less.

For this woman it is not enough to have an orgasm, it would have to have several. It is not enough to have an orgasm stimulating the clitoris, it would have to be ONLY through penetration.
Pay attention to the verb used here: To have (instead of wanting).

And the worst: It is not uncommon for her to come looking for this to please her boyfriend (even if he didn't ask) and not to please herself.

My warning is: be careful not to start wanting to be the perfect girl.
This can generate great anxiety that does not help you to have pleasure, on the contrary it begins to disturb you.

Seek more sexual pleasure, but start getting to know yourself better. What do you like most about sex? How do you like to be touched? What gives you real pleasure? How do you like to feel when you're having sex? What parts of the body give you pleasure, besides the vulva?

When you get to know yourself, you will know if you are looking for perfection or if you really want to develop further in the matter of sexual pleasure. You will know if it is doing this for you or for others.