"Tan-transcend"
posted by cervinka
The beginning of a trajectory is always characterized by a single step. It is he who unleashes a series of others, responsible for bringing any traveler closer to his destination. If it is a journey into oneself, in search of the much talked about transformation or intimate reform, it still requires a first movement to move on from it.
Generally, an extra dose of courage is needed. After all, on this tour there are mandatory stops that are not always so pleasant.
There are real museums with impeccable and broken pieces. Even the darkest galleries can be visited. This collection completes historical collections of paintings painted with zeal and dedication, in contrast to others that present less careful, torn works, made on fragile canvases, with lower quality paints.
The importance of all of this can be exemplified through a sincere and creative testimony, sent by someone who decided to take a first step and expand their understanding of the (inner) world, whose transcription can reveal, among other things, that this trip can even count on the support of a guide, but it is the visitor himself who takes responsibility for the curatorship.
To transcend is to "rise above or go beyond the limits of" ... because, for the layman (in this case I) it was necessary to transcend my limits to, in fact, start a treatment through tantric massage.
I understood that I needed to balance my energies that, due to a series of factors, were literally stagnant. Others, more knowledgeable than I, could even present a better explanation for this, but the fact is that I really felt such
imbalance.
Then, quite coincidentally, one day in a group of friends one of them showed a video on the subject and I said: “I want to! Do you have the phone there? ”. They all took the joke, they all made funny comments but ... I called, dialed and attended.
I tell you that from the first moment - undeniably strange, complex (for me), which demanded enormous discipline in order not to try to control the situation - I realized the benefit it would bring me.
As I am someone who propagates what is good for me, I told some of my closest friends ... oh, how much nonsense I heard from many, how much healthy curiosity I heard from others. Of those who only saw the same sex, comments from the most defiant, addressed both to the professional and to me. Of those who showed healthy curiosity ... subtle feedbacks like "you were right" ... because you didn't need it anymore.
I consider it a treatment, a therapy, just like my biweekly visit to my psychologist who, incidentally, said that tantric therapy saved me five years of conventional therapy - her words.
In addition to prejudices, taboos, any defiling ideas, the encounter with your own sexuality, with your own primal flow of energy, balances you. And, contrary to what it may seem, the exercise of receiving, purely and simply, of allowing and observing yourself feeling your body as a whole, a current pulsing in motion is, indeed, liberating.
As I said, pure transcendence.