Tantra: the encounter with your "I"
Tantra means "expand to break". In other words, it represents a path of discoveries and also about our prisons that lead us to an eternal Self-Sabotage Cycle in life. By becoming aware of our limiting patterns, we break paradigms to transform ourselves, free ourselves and take off.
This Cycle represents situations that are repeated and cause harm or suffering. Therefore, the objective of Tantra becomes unlimited when we want to adopt it as a personal development tool.
Before that, know that Tantra is a behavioral philosophy, so it's much more practical than mental. Also, she doesn't have a specific goal. Nor can we say that its focus is on developing people, as this is a natural consequence of implementing it in everyday life.
But why do some people have transcendental experiences and others do not? After all, what does it mean to find one's own "I"? Based on these frequent doubts, in this article I will share important details about this philosophy of life, the meaning of the deep encounter with your "self", my testimony about this experience and the importance of this connection for a more authentic and conscious life. Check out!
Tantra and the experiences of each individual
When I went through a session with therapist Sasha Cali, it was amazing! Although I had other massage experiences within the tantric context, I came across an opportunity to experience an incredible and unique session.
I was always afraid to go to a Tantric Therapy session, as it reminded me more of a consultation with the gynecologist and not a process of discovery, expansion of body awareness, acceptance and the possibility of exploring unknown points of pleasure.
"So, I've always associated Tantra with discomfort and not with the merit of experiencing pleasure in the whole body, regardless of genital touch"
During the session, my body reacted with small convulsions, which brought well-being and an indescribable experience. This is before any genital touching, but initially throughout the entire body. I just collapsed onto the mat and lost track of time. I surrendered completely to the pleasurable, different sensations. In addition, it allows the thoughts that came to mind to flow without any brakes.
"When it got to the genitals, I remembered the gynecologist and my mother when I changed my diaper"
As a baby, I remembered her cleaning and the pain she felt during that period. Suddenly, I started to tense up, close my legs and grab the therapist's hand to stop her from going any further. However, out of confidence, I followed the guidelines and allow for the gentle touch of a professional, loving and caring hand.
After a period of crying, I began to feel pleasure that made me laugh uncontrollably, for pure pleasure, something few women experience in this life. That's because, not even conventional sex leads to such intense pleasure. There is no need for genital touch, because the massage itself promotes a true orgasmic sensation in the body.
The experience in a Tantric Therapy session is powerful, intense, incomparable to traditional sex patterns and full of discoveries that emerge during the journey. By the way, these discoveries represent the encounter with the "I", in the true essence.
At that moment, all anger or negative emotion, inherent to the "ego" breaks down and we access the feminine present in all of us. The feminine that enables us to understand, to listen without trampling other people's speech, to have compassion, to care for others, to welcome others. It is through the path of pleasure without malice that we transform pains into purposes, weaknesses into strengths and free ourselves from our imaginary cocoons.
Tantra and the Inaccessible Memories
During the massage, we need to commit to that moment and take responsibility for our searches. Instead of depositing everything in the therapist's hands and hoping for a miracle.
Therefore, following guidelines and surrendering demonstrates commitment to oneself and to one's own development. So I followed Sasha's voice and so I allowed myself to experience something new.
The results were unexpected, as was the breaking of irrational resistances. Or at least, a good portion of it, as these disruptions are gradual and do not occur all at once, in a single session. In the next topic, I will share more about this experience! Read next!
Tantra: testimonial about my experience
When I surrendered completely, my body felt completely sensitized. After the energetic unblocking of the dense regions of the body, the tension reduced, the pain diminished and the pleasure was installed. I suddenly experienced an increasingly intense process. Finally, during the integration, my body vibrated for minutes and I silenced the barrage of rational thoughts.
The feeling of lightness occurs from the inside out in Tantra. And it is not limited to muscle and body relaxation only, but mental, emotional and physical well-being at the same time, as it involves intense pleasure and without malice. Being that, something I've never experienced in these 42 years of life. That's why you need to surrender, choose a trusted professional and follow the guidelines.
Tantra: body self-knowledge and construction of full sexuality
Tantra revolves around continuous bodily self-knowledge, so it is not a single-purpose process. It will always be linked to the way we deal with sexuality and body self-knowledge. Consequently, the encounter with your "I" in a deeper way, where we access the true essence, behind our masks that cause resistance, destructive feelings, external addictions, lack of authenticity, superficial connections and the search for eternal of the "cheap dopamines" that feed our ego in a quick and addictive way.
The encounter with your "I" brings you closer to full sexuality, limitless creativity, regulation of the Vital Energy in the physical body, the necessary energy maintenance to enjoy a lighter life, accepting yourself and people, circumstances and detachment as a springboard to turn important keys and lead us on a journey with more meaning, purpose, fulfillment and authenticity.
From this article, you understood that Tantra does not have a specific objective, but revolves around body self-knowledge, the awakening of full sexuality, different from the cultural standards and society in which we are immersed, from what we learn and were educated to follow. .
You also discovered that the pleasure to be enjoyed in Tantra is pure, without malice and therefore, natural, free of demands, performances, abuses, disrespect, but based on love, reverence and indescribable sensations of incomparable pleasure. Pleasure that leads to the path of healing and releasing trauma, pain and resistance.
You've probably already heard of Tantra, but did you imagine that it was all that?
What makes Tantra something divine is its ability to transform lives on the verge of destruction, using simple tools. For Tantra is about simplicity. And it is only possible to understand it through sensory experience.
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