Betrayed, what to do?

I start with a personal opinion, I always thought that when there was a betrayal in a relationship, it was because something was not going well, today I have this opinion totally changed, it seems that the saying “search the street for what you don't have at home” is not the big truth , but adding on the street and continuing with the stability of what you have at home.

For many this is inconceivable! But times are different, people are venturing more, and when the choice to betray happens the most relevant is to know if the person will be able to afford the situation, without future regret.

Many people cannot deal with the so-called heavy conscience, so they do not take any chances, while others pay to see it, and the regret is so great that the relief is to confess to the partner, and there are those who take as experiences, lived pages and turned.

I particularly know stories where women found out and forgave, otherwise I see little, men find it much more difficult to forgive.

I made this text for reflection on what made you betray:

> new experiences?

> self affirmation?

> falling in love?

> do you think you have that right?

> what the eyes do not see the heart does not feel?

> are you paying back?

> have little sex at home?

There are several reasons, right?

And the aim is not to judge each other's choices, but to make sure that we can assess the honesty of the relationship that I can choose to have.

Given the choice to cheat, what to do next?

> confess?

> repeat?

> shut up and move on?

> finish?

Whatever the answer, the important thing is to handle the situation as comfortably as possible. Each one knows and chooses the weight he wants to carry, our mind is often a specialist in pointing us and we judge ourselves. Being honest is always the best thing to do, but it depends on how you face what you consider to be mistakes.