Do you trust what you know about sex?
posted by Deva Karuno
Have you ever stopped to think when you heard about sex and the way you practice? Let's analyze whether or not we had sex education and how it was done:
HEAR THROUGH
In adolescence, we acquire part of sexual knowledge through friends. At school, there is usually an "expert" on the subject. But none of them are necessarily well informed. People are generally not very genuine about their experiences because they feel insecure when talking about sex.
PORNOGRAPHY
Men can watch more pornography than women, but that is not why they are less affected. The fact is that men learn from pornography and it has become natural. Women, on the other hand, must be a lady before society and fulfill all their partner's wishes.
Although many women are not comfortable with this, they believe that it is right, that they need to strive to please them. Pornography is made by men and for men to feed their primitive instinct, through superficial fantasy that glorifies the male ego in a violent and selfish way.
OUR PARENTS
Most just talk about "how we came to the world". But few actually pass on as they prepare to have a good love life, not least because many have never met. And there is always the doubt, if our parents have not inherited a wrong concept from other people.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
Trials, mistakes and successes are the best way to learn. We know that it is much easier to identify what is good or not for you, after an experience. In the case of women when they have experience in the yoni phase of tantric massage, they discover that everything they have experienced before, related to sex, becomes outdated and mechanical, as the true sense of pleasure is discovered. So think about it, where does your knowledge come from, what do you know satisfy you?
Tantric wisdom offers the keys to the doors of your sexual energy. It is not an absolute truth, it is just an opportunity for you to explore and decide for yourself what really works, with proper guidance.