Do you consider yourself an orgasmic person?

Orgasm is very beneficial for our health in every way. It provokes intense feelings of pleasure, of ecstasy, of connection with the divine, it releases an enormous amount of hormones that generate love, good humor, joy, well-being, the desire to share good things, it brings together and nourishes the relationships between couples ...

It contributes a lot to self-knowledge, self-love, body and energy awareness, can lead us to incredible experiences of expanding consciousness, dissolving breastplates, resignifying painful and traumatic memories. It makes us feel alive, happy, at ease with life, full of energy, smiles and kindnesses to distribute, makes us overflow the most beautiful feelings ...

It is very sad to see that most women do not even know this sensation. Due to repressive values, beliefs instilled since childhood that sex is wrong, ugly, dirty, promiscuous, that “right woman” cannot touch, let alone enjoy sex. Or that to assume that not having orgasms reveals a defect of yours. And then, they end up pretending to please their partner, so that he believes he knows how to give her a lot of pleasure and feel good. And she goes on with her life, less and less willing to have sex. Which is absolutely normal, since you don't feel pleasure. And the couple gets distant, the relationship wears out.

Due to this sexist cultural charge that we carry in the conscious, in the unconscious and in our cells, many women did not even have the courage to look at the vulva itself. Touch yourself then? Much more taboo. Know what to give you pleasure? Not even spoken.

The word yoni is a Sanskrit word that means "portal of life", "divine passage", "place of birth", "sacred temple", "source of life" and is the female sexual organ. That is exactly what this organ is. Not a part of the body that we should be ashamed of, repress, pretend it doesn't matter ... Woman, look at your yoni with the eyes she deserves.

Many men learn to develop their sexuality based on pornography. They end up conditioned to seek pleasure through standardized visual and sensory stimuli, often violent and degrading to women, and are increasingly disconnected from their natural sexuality. Sex has the purpose of ejaculation, as a relief, a release of tension, and not an invigorating, quality and beneficial energy exchange for both. Pleasure is not in the relationship itself, in every moment, there is a search for the end, for the so-called “happy ending”, and the woman ends up being in the background in this process.

These conditions can generate dysfunctions, which, if left untreated, lead to a series of difficulties, obstacles and an unsatisfactory and full sex life. Sexuality is a very important part of our lives and if we neglect it, we will certainly not have a healthy life. Most men have orgasms of a few seconds, unaware that they have an orgasmic potential that allows them to experience multiple orgasms, and that this potential just needs to be explored and developed.

Most of us were conceived from a single orgasm, which was what our father felt. Have you ever stopped to think how absurd this is?

All of us, if we are in organically healthy conditions, have many possibilities to experience orgasms, including the whole body. Our whole body is orgasmic, but many people still believe that orgasm is only in the genitals.

It is possible to have orgasms, with caresses, massages, with kisses, with stimulation of the breasts, clitoris, G-spot. It is possible for men to have the so-called dry orgasms in addition to the ejaculatory ones, and orgasms with the stimulation of the prostate. Penetration is just one of many ways to stimulate the body to achieve orgasms.

Tantric massage is an excellent tool to work on the development of orgasmic potential. Couples who learn the technique to apply to each other, greatly increase the connection and affective bonds. It's an incredible job!

Our body is capable of providing us with such wonderful sensations. It is a pity that due to sociocultural, moral and social control issues, many people end up not giving due importance to this natural capacity that we have.

Tantra brings to light the view of the sacredness of sex. It is sex that brings life to this world. If there had not been a sexual relationship, you would not be here and could not experience life.

How can something that is actually so beautiful be wrong, ugly, dirty, bad or degrading? We make it beautiful or ugly. It is our choices about sex that will make it sacred or not. These are our attitudes. Therefore, let us not condemn sex.

But being an orgasmic person goes far beyond "being able to experience sexual orgasms". It is to enjoy life in general. Be it when you feel the sun, the breeze, the sea water, the waterfall, the rain or the shower when you touch your body, when washing your soul. It is taking pleasure in smiling and seeing smiles, in teaching and learning, in exchanging hugs and kisses, in dancing the way you feel like it and allowing music to take you, chatting with a friend, practicing good, taking a look of affection, of welcoming, a sweet word, a kindness. It is a pleasure to be grateful for everything you are, for the opportunity to live this earthly experience, to share, to feel down to earth, to connect with nature, with the elements, with intuition, with ancestral wisdom, of their masters and spiritual friends. It is taking pleasure in breathing, in exchanging, in having a pleasant reading, in allowing yourself to rest and enjoy, in expressing yourself in the most different ways, in meditating, in short. In everything else that inspires you to feel alive.

To be an orgasmic person is to live with joy, connected with your own essence, giving value to what really has value, including everything that belongs, understanding the other, loving yourself and overflowing that love there.

For a world in which every day we have more orgasmic people, sharing the most diverse pleasures with each other.