Do you have difficulty giving or receiving affection?

In tantra sessions, it is very common to receive people with difficulties in interpersonal relationships, problems of affectivity, resistance to touch and also sexual difficulties. It is not difficult to understand that these (very recurring) issues originate in our repression culture, where from a very young age we have suffered several types of micro repressions, which are often seen as “educational, normal and healthy”, but which actually generate emotional blocks that are reflected in our interpersonal relationships.

The culture of repression can be imperceptible, and appear normal most of the time. The intention is to provide a good education, however, the practices of repression are passed from generation to generation, in an automated way, with the best intentions, and we barely know that we are perpetuating shallow relationships and many emotional and affective blocks.

Affective-sexual repression begins in childhood, when the child begins to discover his genitals and touch them. It is very common to say “Take your hand away, girl, this is ugly, it's dirty!” that are permanently etched and affect how we explore our sexuality and affectivity. The repressions do not stop there, they happen at home, at school, and in the bullying of friends, forming teenagers and adults with serious problems of self-esteem and expression of affection. The consequences are overwhelming, and difficult to reverse. No wonder we live in a "borderline" society full of need, anxiety, depression and with great difficulty in expressing or accepting affection.

Tantric therapy works on sensoriality, self-acceptance and affection. We use pleasure and orgasm to dissolve all that repression that has accumulated since we were very young. Because it is practical, in a few sessions there is a lot of paradigm break, and the difference in body posture is very noticeable in the first session. In a short time, many issues are resinified, and we start to look at our body with more affection and compassion, and this is where we start to live in a more relaxed way and our relationships start to have greater depth and connection. Scheduling the first session is very difficult, as there is a lot of taboo involved, and all the repression that is within us begins to scream hysterically, trying once again to prevent us from looking inside. After the courage of the first session, everything becomes easier and the love path he is increasingly free for a full life and full of surrender and affection. Tantra is a very beautiful way to go!