Yoni

Popularly known as pussy, frog, cockatiel, priquito, xana, chavasca, persecuted, vagina, ppk, xereca, prexereca, ximbica, xeca, pussy, pito, greta, racha, among so many other nicknames, it makes much more sense for me to call her la de yoni (Sanskrit word meaning “gate of life”, “divine passage”, “birthplace”, “sacred temple”, “source of life”), which is indeed what she is.

It's so common that people have learned not to give due value to our yoni, that we don't look at it, don't treat it and touch it with due affection, that people don't know how to feel pleasure through it, how much potential it has. orgasm, the potential for a pleasurable life, the potential for creation and well-being can emerge in us through it.

How many women are ashamed of the appearance of their yoni because even for them they set a standard of beauty. Many end up undergoing surgeries to fit in. The diversity is so rich and the standardization so cruel.

For a long time I believed that my possibilities of orgasmic sensations were minimal, limited, and that when I reached a small orgasm, which lasted on average about 3 seconds, the stimuli should stop, because I had already come and I believed that my clitoris was very sensitive to proceed, and that was the case, I had already reached the goal. I had no idea what it was like to experience an orgasm from G-spot stimulation, and I thought that not feeling it was normal, that it was an ability of very few women, and I wasn't one of them.

I had never imagined the countless pleasurable sensations, orgasms and energy discharges that my body is capable of feeling. All the discoveries of the most diverse and incredible sensations that not only my yoni, but my entire body is capable of experiencing, I gained awareness after experiencing a tantric massage session. And with each session, new sensations and greater possibilities arise.

This therapeutic massage was responsible for helping me to change my relationship with my body, to accept myself, to love myself, to change the vision I had about sex and sexuality, it brought me awareness and development of my orgasmic potential, the possibility of to feel my own energy throughout my body and to be nourished by it.

I realized how for most of my life, I bought and wore the beliefs, the taboos, the social orders that were presented to me, I realized the internal voices that echoed in my programming for so long, about standards of beauty, ways of how a woman should behave, how she should act to please and keep a partner on her side.

How much nonsense I accepted as an absolute truth and kept myself trapped in relation to the idea of ​​what an attractive and pleasant woman would be like to a man, about proper behavior, about how to dress, about feeling unreasonable guilt, about pruning myself, submitting myself, to fit in a social model that I learned to see that should be followed.

It's wonderful to leave these beliefs behind, to perceive myself as being unique, able to make my own choices, regardless of what I was taught and demanded as the right thing to follow. Feel free from so many ties and prisons I've been in. It is a daily deconstruction and tantra, including through my yoni, plays a fundamental role in all of this.

Becoming aware of so many possibilities for pleasure, healing, self-knowledge and personal development, using my body as a tool for all this, I consider as one of the most important discoveries of my life.

Men and women, even today, have a huge difficulty in knowing how to stimulate the yoni in a pleasurable way, this in relation to all of it, including the clitoris and even more the G-spot.

Perceiving my yoni today as it is, and giving it the due value it has is priceless. May every woman have the opportunity to feel her power, to treat her yoni with the importance she has, to be master of herself.

For me, it's more than a privilege to work as a channel for women to feel their own energy in such a powerful way, in a way that they didn't even imagine was possible, that they had never even heard of, that was denied and hidden by so many cultural veils.

Tantric massage is an extremely powerful tool for women to get to know their yoni and the energetic potential that is in it.

It is a beautiful, liberating and transformative work. Available to all who are open to this incredible path of self-knowledge.