Yoni Massage: Learn to remember forgotten pleasure

The Yoni massage is a complex of practices that begins with the conversation to identify the limiting beliefs created by culture in relation to the behaviors in a woman's life that prevent her from experiencing pleasurable experiences with her body.

“We have the experience that some women have low self-esteem because they focus their attention only on the other. The disappointment and lack of pleasure in living, which also includes having orgasms, leaves this woman in tatters, unable to like herself, to love herself. ”

In this flow of reconstruction of self-esteem, the subtle, attentive and careful touch will be the next step, with the permission of this woman.

“We often go through situations of rejection and shield ourselves. We created the belief that we don't deserve to receive affection. ”

Many of us have parents of a rustic nature, with little affection and predisposition to touch. We carry the legacy that keeping a distance is right, although we see people hugging and showing affection around them. This creates conflict in our mind. It generates a cold, anguished body that attracts cold relationships.

The subtle and attentive touch conveys harmony and the necessary confidence to the existence of a woman's receptivity and surrender.

“Often the woman is treated as an object, like a piece of meat on display, for sale. Often the hand that touches roughly violates without permission. Often, with intent or not, the sacred tissue is torn. ”

The therapist knows the sensitive issues contained in a woman's baggage, knows the responsibility that she assumes when a woman entrusts them with such issues, and will treat each woman's case with the utmost respect.

Over time, the body returns to its vibrant condition and demonstrates this through involuntary spasms. At the beginning, the frequency of heartbeats increases, but they tend to become stable due to the stillness of the mind, which contributes to a greater acceptance to the touch.

"Each spasm is a small orgasm, we call it an orgasmic pulse."

With sensitive stimuli, the female body demonstrates its excitatory potential through dilation of the pupils, increased salivation, sweat and lubrication of the vaginal tissue. The time of emergence of these responses is different for each woman.

Physiologically the woman has nerves whose branches are connected to the spine and the brain.

Unlike men, women have little or no orgasm during sexual intercourse, they almost never manipulate their genitals, so their pleasure organs are hypotonic, flabby and do not support energy.

Thus, it is necessary to consciously manipulate each part of the yoni tissue (vulva in Sanskrit) with the intention of toning, lubricating and increasing blood supply.

"A woman needs more than 30 minutes of stimulation to produce the arousal that can give her intense orgasms."

Without sufficient lubrication, yoni is not receptive to lingam (penis in Sanskrit) and has more difficulty reaching orgasmic climax.

During the yoni massage session it is possible to decrease or even eliminate the refractory period, that is, the intervals between each orgasmic peak. When this happens, the woman has a constant period of orgasm and experiences the “ocean experience”.

The expanded pleasure is the sensation of pulsations throughout the body, where everything converges to the here and now, also called total ecstasy.

If a woman has pain in the yoni region, dysfunction called dyspareunia when the pain is bearable and vaginismus when it is unbearable, we first do a desensitization with manual maneuvers so that she can overcome the discomfort and experience the pleasure.