Sexless Orgasm Therapy
Folha de S. Paul
The percentage of Brazilian women who do not feel pleasure remains high; for these, the purpose of tantra is to separate mind and body. Those who only know sex without orgasm, can resort to orgasm without sex, developed, practiced and transformed into therapy by a group of tantra.
In a crude definition, tantra is the Hindu line that seeks spiritual evolution from pleasure. To increase sexual potency, achieve hyperorgasms and open consciousness, Tantrists use ancient methods.
They also use a vibrator, in the case of Metamorphosis Center, which works in several capitals. In São Paulo, its three units are sought after by women with anorgasmia and men with premature ejaculation and impotence.
“We receive women aged 40, 50, who experience orgasm here, for the first time,” says therapist Deva Manisha, a blonde with a German accent who switched her letters degree along the path of tantra.
In her description, what they call an orgasm there is a different state of perception, a succession of waves of energy that make the whole body vibrate.
Here, they experience female ejaculation right from the first session, have continuous orgasms and reach supraconsciousness ”, sells Manisha. Yes, but what is the technique? ” Difficult to explain with words, tantra is sensory. You have to go through the experience.
Those who went through the experience, like the São Paulo actress VR, say that the massage “yoni” (vagina, in Sanskrit) “leads to an ecstasy superior to that achieved in sexual relations”.
But it is all “without malice”: it is a professional service, with no sexual or emotional intention between client and therapist ”. In her comparison, it's like going to the dentist to extract a tooth.
Only an orgasm will be extracted. V., 47, decided to look for the tantra center because after leaving a 20-year marriage, she could no longer get along in bed with any new boyfriend.
The actress says that in the session, the patient lies naked on a lined mattress, because she is likely to ejaculate. The therapist (the client chooses) puts on a surgical glove. The other tools are oils, lubricant and a vibrator, which does not look like a penis.
It does not look like it because all the conduct there aims to neutralize projections, memories and eroticism. “We use physical stimuli in the genitals to awaken the body's sexual intelligence. They are different from psychological stimuli, triggered by sexual memories or fantasies ”, explains Manisha. "When you dissociate the thought from orgasm, I can say that it comes, it is guaranteed."
The massage begins with touches on the inner thighs, reminiscent of lymphatic drainage and aimed at humidifying the vagina. Then there are touches to the pelvis, groin, vulva, external and internal lips, perineum.
The clitoris is manipulated and stretched, in a method created by the center's founder, Deva Nishok. According to him, it is possible to increase the size of this organ (and the pleasure), releasing it from the ligamentous bonds of the pubic bone. It is the phase, in the massage, called the "extrusion of the clitoris".
At the end of the session, the therapist uses the vibrator at various points on the woman's genitals.
“Internal points are also stimulated, such as G. When the vibration begins, I cry, relieve myself. The waves spread over the sensitive areas and wake up others, many that were asleep. Pleasure takes over the whole body, there are many orgasms. It's fantastic, ”says V.
She says she went to get help for the lack of pleasure in relationships, but found a deeper healing system. “After the massage, I feel emotional relief. I am in a different state that lasts a week ”.
Many endorphins, oxytocins and serotonins later, the actress took her boyfriend to the center. She learned to do the “lingam” (penis) massage - in which, according to Manisha, the man tastes up to four ejaculations and eight to ten dry orgasms, all in an hour and a half. And he learned to make "yoni" on her. The couple incorporated the tantric techniques in their relationships, happy ending.
But wait: does a therapist make a client come like never before, and is there never any confusion between these two humans? No crush, no dependency, no transfer?
“I also thought it was impossible”, says the therapist Evandro Palma. “After all, there is a body at your disposal, and you are going to provide everything for him. But we empty the erotic content of it, we separate orgasm from sex. We work on sexual energy, but the focus is on spiritual expansion, ”he says.
According to him, the person is not dependent on the technique. “We make it feasible, but the orgasm belongs to those who feel it”, he says. And he closes: “When he perceives the great energetic discharge that his body is capable of producing, the person becomes autonomous, stops seeing his partner as a projection of himself, which facilitates relationships.”
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